Thursday, 13 October 2016

Be who you want to be!

Hello Everyone!
I hope things are great!

So today I wanted to talk about a bit of a personal sort of topic which we all struggle with at some time in our lives!
And that's the issue of deciding who we want to be whether as a human or something professionally! 

Its such a difficult thing cause we live a life surrounded by loads of people who have different opinions obviously and everybody is willing to give advice and mostly those advises are different varying from person to person. It just makes you not a good person but just a confused person and it can surely destroy our personality. So as far as the advises counts, I am a firm believer that we should listen to 'em at any cost cause some of the people are willing to give advice based on their own experiences so we should be all ears! But the thing which is more important then that is to use our own sense of discretion as what and which thing is paramount for us cause at the end of the day its your life and nobody can tell you or dictate you a path to follow. So listen to advises cause they are sometimes very valuable and helps a lot in shaping your lives but that only happens when you take your thought and feelings into account as well.
Nobody knows you better then you do, so don't let anyone take your obsession of going for a particular profession that you love, away from you!! If there is a thing which you want to do just listen to yourself cause people surely are gonna give you various advises as what and what you should do.. but you know that the profession that you want is the one you are good at so how just think how can a person be a doctor if he wants to be an architect, and he knows his abilities and he knows that he is good at it. But people are trying to confuse him as he should be doctor cause its way more good profession then an architect but the truth is if he will join medical college he wont be able to bring the best out of it cause he is not made for it!! So thats professionally.. 
When it comes to being a person.. We all are judged in one way or another but the thing which should be kept in mind is that YOU CAN'T PLEASE EVERYONE! You can try to but trust me its more harder then you think..You are strong, don't let anyone dull your sparkle, be the sort of person who gives you happiness!! Cause at the end of the day your opinion about your life is the opinion that matters. If people judge you, you are gonna mold yourself to be the sort of person they want you to be but again everyone has different opinions and ask yourself are you gonna keep on doing that? Are you gonna change yourself every time after being judged?
No!! Its just gonna make you a miserable person and that's all but nobody wants that at all. So we shouldn't let people take on our lives and handle them in whatever way they want. Don't forget it's your life and as Will Traynor said.." You only get one life.. Its actually your duty to live it as fully as possible". So yeah that's that!
Nobody is as concerned about your life as you are and you should be so that tells us that we are the only one or maybe our parents, who have the full liberty to decide your future professionally. And you let alone you are the one who knows what suits you, what sort of life gives you happiness! If you are a girl and you like make up go for it cause it give you happiness but please apply according to your age :) and on the other hand if you don't prefer it and people say you should wear it, but you feel satisfied or we can say " more you" then don't wear it, cause if you will then you will be uncomfortable so yeah be the person you want to be! Similarly if you are a boy and people say you to wear your wrist watch on left arm cause apparently we have this thing where we believe that men wear it on left while women on right..but if you are left handed and you find it convenient to be worn on right hand go for it man.. its not a matter of life or death at least as far as my research tells me so yeah its up to you and don't let anyone tell you which arm should be your watch on! Tiny things like that.. so its always the little things and by achieving this sort of satisfaction we will be able to live our life to the fullest!
So there we go. But keep it in mind that we should listen to all the advises we are given, respect 'em! But just while thinking about those advises don't forget your advice cause it really matters!
Be who you want to be!
I will see you in the next post :)
Good Luck!
Cause it's your life.. Even if you will become the sort of person they want you to be, they are not gonna be so chuffed about to so dont ruin your life!!