Monday, 22 February 2016

HeForShe Campaign!

Hello everyone!
So today I am going to talk about the HeForShe! 
For those of you who are completely unaware of it , it is

HeForShe is a solidarity campaign for gender equality initiated by UN Women. Its goal is to engage men and boys as agents of change for the achievement of gender equality and women’s rights, by encouraging them to take action against inequalities faced by women and girls Grounded in the idea that gender equality is an issue that affects all people—socially, economically and politically—it seeks to actively involve men and boys in a movement that was originally conceived as “a struggle for women by women”. Some noticed the contradiction of a campaign for gender equality which only takes action against inequalities faced by women and girls, ignoring problems affecting men and boys. Wikipedia

So gender equality has always been an issue for sure.And I really want Pakistan yo move a bit ahead in the aspect of gender equality. This campaign is such a good one to raise voice for gender equality and I must say that a little step is a lot. So I came to know about this campaign due to Emma Watson, I adore her, she is the UN Women Goodwill Ambassador. She launched this campaign in September '14. In her speach she addressed the fact that 'feminism has become an unpopuler word' ! I am a Feminist are you?

 I am addressing it pretty late I know but quite recently they launched the website for HeForShe. We can play our part by simply making a commitment within seconds on !
That is it. The rest of the work is there! Be a feminist!! It is such a good way to vote for the part in which YOU think we lack gender equality like education, health, education, violence etc!
And your commitment can really make a difference!
Do it!

Both men and women should feel free to be sensitive. Both men and women should feel free to be strong. It is time that we all perceive gender on a spectrum, instead of two sets of opposing ideals. If we stop defining each other by what we are not, and start defining ourselves by who we are, we can all be freer, and this is what HeForShe is about. It’s about freedom. - Emma Watson

I want! Do you?
Go and sign up for the commitment on the heforshe website!
Your voice matters!

Sunday, 14 February 2016

It's okay to be sad!

I hope everything and everyone is perfect out there!
Today I am going to talk about feeling down and low about yourself and your life!
We just have this weird perception that everyone has a perfect life except us! Which I must say is not at all true but we think about it this way!
Everyone in this whole entire world gets sad and in my opinion it is completely normal.
Nobody has got a perfect life , this is the thing which we should remind our self most of the times as it will help us to go through those sad moments. 
  • Crying!
Crying...In my opinion is the best and most easy way to let all the emotions out and feel 'normal' again. One should not feel ashamed of crying. It is definitely not an act of cowardliness it is just a gesture of feeling human. So cry if you want to don't ever hide it just for the sake of others!
  • Inscribe!   
Well this is a difficult one from some people including me. I find it really hard to share my feelings or my issues with other people , I think it is completely normal because a lot of people feel this way . So a good solution is to just write whatever is bothering you or making you sad , trust me it really does help. It makes you feel better!

  • Nothing is PERFECT!
Remind yourself that nobody has a perfect life and it is completely fine to have a day that just wipes out of your calendar. For this purpose you can write some motivational quotes on the wall of your bedroom or keep something that will help you in feeling positive on your side table!

  • Time will change!

This is the best quality of time that it never remains same , it changes. So it is alright to have a sad day because it will go and you won't even remember it.

Keep this in ind that nobody is perfect and the people tat we think have got the perfect and most amazing lives , have not the best lives . They feel down as well they feel stressed as well so you are not alone in the!

Just remember to be positive about yourself and about your life and just tell the sadness that you are not gonna work on me I am stronger then you !
Be confident!
You are much much more then you think! Having a bad day is honestly not the end of the world. I know for sure that when we think that world is going to to end when we are sad but trust me it is not the case and it is never ever going to happen!
Sadness is just an emotion like other emotions of being happy o anxious or excited etc. So just treat it like an emotion and not as a matter of life and death!
It is gonna be alright!


Saturday, 6 February 2016

The place which means the world to me!

I hope everyone is well out there!
Today I wanted to talk about my happy place , I think everyone has a happy place where they feel the best I have got one as well.
My happy place is my village from where my parents , well my father belongs and I have been going there ever since I was born and all of my relatives live there and I feel so loved when I am there!

Most people feel the best when they go to extremely beautiful places with great views and amazing weather , that is alright but I think for me my happy place is the place where there is love and where you have all the people you love!

So this is my happy place , the place where my heart is ,the place where I feel great!

and just to let you know it may not be the most outstanding place that you have ever seen but for me it means the world to me!

Weather looks amazing here!

 Malty! the best part :)

So yeah it is not the most stunning place that is just so pretty but i love it to the moon and back because I have been to this place since I was a little girl!
I have the best memories there with the best people!
So this is honestly my happy place.

My fave sort of weather! 

 I spy a cheeky little cat there!

For me it is Heaven! :)
love being there and always ready to go cause I love it to bits!
This view looks great! doesn't it? 

So let me know which place is your happy place!
Thanks for reading !